<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Nef Lopez — writing &amp; experiments</title><description>I&apos;m building businesses, talking to interesting people, running experiments on myself, and documenting what I learn.</description><link>https://neferlopez.com/</link><language>en-us</language><item><title>Why I&apos;m Running Experiments on Myself in Public</title><link>https://neferlopez.com/writing/why-im-running-experiments-on-myself-in-public/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://neferlopez.com/writing/why-im-running-experiments-on-myself-in-public/</guid><description>The premise of this site — turning ideas into experiments, experiments into observations, and publishing before the lessons are tidy.</description><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>I Thought I Was Afraid of Cold Calling. I Was Afraid of Not Being Liked.</title><link>https://neferlopez.com/writing/i-thought-i-was-afraid-of-cold-calling/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://neferlopez.com/writing/i-thought-i-was-afraid-of-cold-calling/</guid><description>Years of dials, one honest realization about what the dread was actually about — and an experiment to test it.</description><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>You Don&apos;t Have to Like Me for Me to Like Me</title><link>https://neferlopez.com/writing/you-dont-have-to-like-me-for-me-to-like-me/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://neferlopez.com/writing/you-dont-have-to-like-me-for-me-to-like-me/</guid><description>On the quiet self-abandonment of being agreeable, and the sentence I keep having to relearn.</description><pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>